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New Business

Considering my love for everything circuitry, it’s a wonder I haven’t opened my own kiosk to offer up products of my own.  I thought about how I would do it exactly, too.  More »

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Finding a Place Where You’re Happy

Making sure that I get what I need out of the time I spend with other people can be something that is tough for me. I tend to be one of those More »

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Crazy Fashions

Living in the city means that you will get to see some unusual people. I was talking to someone the other day who was telling me that they wanted to get solid More »

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Looking at this

During a trip to the store I was looking at some places that were on a poster on the wall that I thought looked like they would be fun to go and More »

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Another Place To Try Something Else

For my upcoming excursion I think I am going to go somewhere I have not gone to based entirely on what I think I would experience. Depending on what I decide, however, More »

Running And Stuff

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There is a place nearby where you can go and run if you want.  Going to the gym is something that I Have been thinking about doing and I think I might go here and see if I like running and if so then I might have to join the gym and do some full workout routines.  Lifting weights is something else that I would like to learn how to do and I think it would probably be something that I enjoy as well.  I have seen some people around here who go to the gym and it just seems like the kind of thing I would like.  Of course, I would need to learn how to do all the exercises because the only thing I really know how to do right now are pushups and I don’t think that is the only thing I am going to be doing if I go to the gym.  I will probably see if I can find a place that will give me a place to learn and then I will be able to get in there and pump some mad iron.  lol.

I also want to learn about the things I will need to use to maximize my workouts.  I have heard people talking about different supplements and I know there are things like caffeine that people will take to get some workout energy and then there are also things like those prohormones that were all the rage a while ago but I think most of them are off the market and that’s not something I would want to use anyway.  I think that I also heard about something like garcinia cambogia that is supposed to be a new supplement designed to help people lose weight but I don’t know anything about that besides what I read.  I will probably just try to do some workouts for a while and then if I decide that I would be helped by some of those kinds of things then I might look more into them.  The only other concern that I had about working out was whether or not I would be able to do it with my headphones that I have.  I know that they play music in the gym but I am kind of a nerd when it comes to music so I would probably want to listen to my own when I work out at wherever I do.

Cool Styles

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There are a lot of cool martial arts movies, and I was looking at a martial arts equipment website called www.karatemart.com which made me think that I would like to take karate or kung fu or something.  There are a few schools around me that offer that so I might have to look into it.  I have never done anything like that before so I would probably have to stretch a lot and not be very flexible.  I’ve seen some guys who can kick as high as their own head but there’s no way I could do that!  A lot of the forms and stuff that people do are really cool looking, too, especially when they are doing the jump kicks and spinning around and stuff.  Breaking boards is another cool one although I know it’s just done as a test and demonstration of power.  Breaking a board probably requires some mental toughness as well as physical strength, and I’m sure it requires the right kind of training so you don’t hurt yourself.

It would be cool, though, to be able to do that stuff.  I don’t even mean you have to go to tournaments and compete and stuff, but just learning the style and stuff would be fun I bet.  Another thing is you probably learn some culture along with it, too.  I have heard that some of the stuff that happens in a class is based on the traditions of the country where the art is from.  For example, I’ve heard that people bow to their instructors as a show of respect, and I think that’s pretty prominent throughout many Asian countries.  We don’t really bow here in America as part of our normal routine.  So that could be kind of an awesome experience, too, to learn about another culture.

Anyway, that’s something I’m going to have to look more into because I know there are differences between the styles but I’m not really too positive I know what they are and I would want to be in a style that is a good fit for me.  Even watching demonstrations and stuff you can see that there is sometimes a big difference between styles.  I think some might have changed a bit and become a bit more for show and the only reason I say that because I don’t really have that much familiarity with them but it just seems like jumping around a lot and doing some fantastic looking techniques might be a bit more for demonstration purposes than for actually defending yourself from an opponent.

Exploring Your Psychic Side

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Shakespeare once said that there are more things in heaven and earth than are dreamt of in philosophy, and it’s true that the spiritual side of life holds a fascination for many people. If you’re seeking a deeper meaning to life and are looking for some spiritual fulfillment then you are most certainly not alone.

Getting in touch with your spiritual side can be a fulfilling and even life-changing experience and can take many different forms for many different people. Perhaps you’ve been feeling unfulfilled and dissatisfied in your job and have dreamt of jacking it all in and going backpacking to discover the world and yourself? Or maybe you have become aware of some psychic tendencies and capabilities you believe you possess, and want to pursue them further? Becoming a more spiritual person can take on a variety of guises.

Perhaps you have been aware of possessing more than the usual five senses for some time, but have never really explored your abilities, or perhaps you’ve never known quite how to. Maybe you often correctly predict events that are going to happen, or you sense when someone you love is in danger or upset. Perhaps your dreams often become reality, or you have a feeling that you’ve been to certain places before, even if you’re sure you never have, at least not in this life, or perhaps you can find objects that others have lost just by sensing where they are.

Whatever your psychic tendencies and feelings, doing your research into how to make the most of them will help you to feel more fulfilled and less like you’re denying an important part of who you are. You might feel nervous or embarrassed about revealing your psychic abilities as you feel you might be laughed at or doubted, but by honing and exploring your abilities you will begin to feel more comfortable with who you are, and it certainly doesn’t mean you have to become a professional psychic overnight, if at all. For some, using your psychic gifts to help friends and family is enough, and for others still, it might simply be about understanding yourself better. But if you did decide to use your psychic skills in a more professional capacity to help a greater number of people, it is probably one of the most rewarding and special things you can do, so it’s worth researching and finding out more about.

Headaches, Honey, And Reality TV

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I am glad today is Saturday so I don’t have to go to work.  I woke up this morning with a sinus headache and I don’t really want to do anything except relax around the house today.  One of my friends said I should try a neti pot to clear my sinuses and sent me a video of someone demonstrating how to use it.  It’s basically a little cup that you pour into your nose as you tilt your head and the water comes out the other nostril.  The video actually made me laugh a little because it seemed so crazy.

I usually will take some medicine and take it easy when I have a headache.  Today I’m going to just relax for most of the day and play catch up with the TV shows I’ve recorded.  I really don’t watch that many TV shows, and sadly I seem to be liking reality shows more and more.  I don’t want to like them but I think I’m getting sucked in, and I’d say over 50% of the shows I record are reality shows.  I especially like the home renovation ones, and I’m a huge fan of Faceoff (the makeup special effects one) and the fashion shows.  I’m such a girl.

Every summer my allergies act up a bit.  It’s so random, though, like one day I’ll feel fine and the next day I’ll be sneezing all the time.  I think that’s what causes my sinus headaches, too.  Actually, speaking of allergies, I recently read that local honey, meaning honey produced locally as opposed to imported from somewhere else, is supposed to be helpful for allergies.  I guess it has to do with the pollen or something.  I should see if I can find some around here because usually I just buy my honey at the grocery store and I’m sure that’s imported from somewhere else.  In fact, I also recently read that much of the “honey” that’s sold isn’t even actually honey at all, but is some fake sugary thing instead.

Well I need to finish up and go make some tea and start my marathon of recorded reality TV shows.  If I feel better later I need to do some shopping; I’ve been long overdue to buy some new bedsheets for months now.  I want to get some lighter sheets since it’s summer now because the ones I have now are the ones I got last winter.

Living In A Small Flat

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As you know, I love living in the city.  I love it.  But as you know from either experience or from watching “House Hunters” on HGTV, flats are much smaller in the city.  I remember when I first moved here and all the places I looked at were like 55 meters square.  That was like the size of the bedroom in the place I lived in previously.  Ok, so I’m exaggerating a little bit, but still.  To give you some comparison, when I was living outside of the city I was paying around 640 pounds for a one bedroom that was about 84 meters square.  It was a pretty nice place, I had room for all my furniture, it had a nice kitchen, a good-sized bedroom, and a big bathroom.  Oh, and parking was included in that price.  There was a lot outside where everyone who lived there could park.  So then I start looking downtown and I see that prices go up and sizes go down.  The place I’m living in now is about 55 meters square and I’m paying 960 quid per month, and that doesn’t even include parking!  That’s what it’s like in the city, though.  I have a pretty decent view from my living room, and I even have a little balcony I can go out on and and get some fresh air.  It’s actually a really nice location.  For the most part all the stuff I need is only a few blocks away.  I don’t really have to drive that much.  Compare that to living in the suburbs and you have to drive everywhere.

Living in a smaller place has forced me to make some changes.  I’ve had to become much more organized.  My closets are stuffed to the brim.  I keep some stuff under my desk.  I had to get some plastic bins to store a lot of my stuff in and I have them arranged in my closet so I can find what I need when I need it.  My place only has two closets; there’s a big one in my bedroom and then there’s one in the hallway when you first walk in.  It’s pretty tight but I make it work.

It’s worth it to me, though.  Most of my friends are here.  There’s always stuff to do.  It’s not boring and depressing like living in the suburbs (no offense to my friends who live in the suburbs!).  And there are some amazing restaurants, but that’s another topic for another post.

A New Treatment?

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As you know, one of my interests is personal development.  I recently came across this article about a new treatment for depression that I thought was interesting and wanted to share:

In today’s stressful world, depression is becoming ever more prevalent. Whether genetically predisposed, or life-event related, the unfortunate fact is that depression affects 1 in 10 people in the UK. Often depression might initially manifest in the form of symptoms such as insomnia, or upset stomach, and will ultimately cause people to stop feeling joy in their life.

There are a number of anti-depressant drugs that help people in overcoming the very common problem of depression. For some, this medication proves a perfect remedy, helping combat symptoms, which can include anything from a total lack of appetite and energy, (or compulsion to over eat,) high levels of anxiety or stress and unbearably dark moods.

Of course, talking therapies can help too and are becoming more and more common. At times, a short period of therapy will suffice, for others it’s much more of a long-term solution that can take years to help overcome deep-rooted issues or trauma. There are many different types of psychotherapies to consider. However for some, a satisfactory level of recovery isn’t ever achieved, and wellbeing fluctuates depending on life’s changing circumstances and challenges.

In these cases the question remains, how can I permanently overcome Depression?

Perhaps therapy has been tried but failed, or progress is too slow. Maybe anti-depressants have left you feeling numb, and present you with negative side effects such as decreased sex drive, weight gain, or fatigue. For such ‘treatment resistant Depression’, it’s worth considering repetitive Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation, or rTMS.

rTMS is a ground-breaking treatment for depression.

Unlike antidepressant medication, rTMS has no side effects, so it’s great for those who simply can’t tolerate the physical consequences that go hand in hand with prescribed drugs. It is pain free and a relatively simple process whereby magnetic stimulation is applied directly to a pre-determined position on the patient.

The human brain is inherently an electrical organ that functions through the transmission of electrical signals between nerve cells. rTMS treatment works with your body’s natural processes by simply increasing the number and frequency of such transmissions. It employs magnetic energy to stimulate an area of the brain that regulates mood.

On average, five 30min sessions are needed per week, over a course of 4 weeks. Consultants regularly see results in the first fortnight, and are reporting incredibly positive results in those who have otherwise lost hope in recovering from the debilitation condition.

Research has shown that a large proportion of patients who were previously unresponsive to antidepressants saw a significant improvement in their depression when treated with rTMS, and 1 in 3 patients saw a complete recovery.

 rTMS treatment is currently available only from The London Psychiatry Centre on Harley Street in London. It is an expensive treatment but if you can afford it, it can potentially offer life changing benefits.

Planning Our Trip

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I am super excited right now. In fact, this is the most excited I’ve been in a while. Some other single ladies I know asked if I’d be interested in going with them on a little trip. Why is that so exciting, you ask? Well, we’re going to spend two weeks this summer thousands of miles away from home! It has been sooo long since I’ve did anything either this fun or this spontaneous.

An old friend of mine shot me an email last month talking about getting together. We hung out for a bit and then I remembered why we used to get along so great. We started buddying around and then I met some of her other friends, and together we’re like a match made in heaven (even if we are a little bit dangerous). Well, it turns out they are a very adventurous group and a few months ago they decided to take a trip to Indonesia. There were four girls going but one had to back out at the last minute, and Megan decided that since I fit in so well with the group that they’d ask if I wanted to go. Heck yeah, I’ll go.

Believe it or not, we’re not just going to stay at some posh spa / resort, sitting on the beach for two weeks. These ladies are crazy. We’re actually going to visit four or five different islands while we’re there. Of course we’re going to party it up on the weekends, but throughout the week we plan on going to some pretty remote places. We’re spending some time hiking, going to parks, and even visiting a volcano!

I thought we’d be spending a lot of time on boats while we were there, since Indonesia is a big group of islands, but I couldn’t be more wrong. It turns out Indonesia’s also a bit bigger than I thought. We’re going to be flying from island to island staying at hotel murah, but Megan did her research and booked our flights on a local airline called Lion Air. According to her, the prices were very good and the place is pretty well reviewed. Of course, I don’t really know much about flying at all. The only flights I’ve ever taken have been paid for by work, but from what Megan was saying we’re getting a heck of a deal. It’s been way too long since I’ve did anything this fun and this adventurous. I’m really looking forward to seeing what Indonesia has in store for me.

Goals

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One of my goals in 2013 is to learn to invest. Investing is something I’ve wanted to learn to do for a while but I never really knew where to start. I’ve been saving money for a long time but that money hasn’t been working for me. Money sitting in a savings account is safe. It’ll be there until it’s spent, and it may earn around 1% or so, but most savings accounts don’t even really keep up with inflation anymore. In fact, many stocks barely keep up with the rate of inflation anymore.

One thing that I thought looked pretty interesting were binary options.  They are a bit different than standard investments because instead of purchasing a stock and letting it sit, you’re basically predicting where a stock will be in a certain amount of time. It’s actually a pretty cool concept. Instead of buying a thousand shares of a stock at $20 a share, waiting a year, and cashing out at $20.50 a share, seeing a net gain of around 2.5% you play the market it a completely different way. That same share that’s $20, if you think it could hit $21 by the end of the day then you would invest a set amount of money ($100 for example) and if that share hit $21, then you could score big, with a return of up to 10x your original investment in some cases. If it doesn’t hit $21, however, then you lose your initial investment.

This investment option keeps things interesting. Instead of planting money in one place and playing the waiting game, I get to take a few risks with my money with the promise that there could be an even bigger payout. Of course, I wouldn’t recommend that anybody only invest using binary options, a person needs to diversify. If investing in standard stocks is boring, however, I strongly argue for playing around with binary options. There is huge potential for profit if you learn the market.

I will say, however, that I am still in the ‘learning the market’ stage. I’ve been watching the markets and have invested small amounts of money, but I’m by no means an expert. Like I said earlier, I’m hoping this year is the year I finally get a good system going. I know it’s a lot of work and it’ll take a lot of studying, but I have a feeling it’ll pay off.

Street Parking Sucks

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After living in the city for a while and getting around mostly on foot (or public transportation), the time appears to have come for me to get a car.  Alas, I am losing some of my city cred.  Cuz you know, you’re not really city unless you don’t own a car.  There are some places I have to go, though, that public transportation is kind of a hassle for.  Not to mention coming up soon I will have to make a 45 minutes drive a few times a month to go to another office for some managerial type things.  I thought about using something like Zipcar but then I figured no, I’d rather just have infinite freedom and will just get my own car.  It will actually work out kind of well because my condo includes a parking space; I just haven’t ever used it.  If I were going to have to pay for parking then chances are I might be looking at other options.

So the first thing I need to do is find a good used car.  Honestly I’ll probably just get something with good gas mileage.  I’m a girl (STEREOTYPE WARNING) so I don’t really care about having a fancy sports car or something; I just want to be able to get where I need to go.  Honda Civic?  Toyota Corolla?  Now we’re on the right wavelength.

The other thing I’ll need is cheap car insurance in Tampa.  I know that the fact that I live downtown will make it a bit higher than it would be elsewhere, but since I do have an indoor parking space that may lower it a bit since I won’t be parking on the street.  Man, I hate parking on the street.  It’s part of the reason I avoided getting a car when I first moved here, because I knew I didn’t want to drive anywhere because that would either require finding street parking, which is a huge pain, or parking in a garage, which is usually expensive.  But I’m really glad I have a garage spot where I live so at least when I come home I won’t have to worry about trying to find a spot on the street.

On a related note, walking everywhere helps get you in shape.  I’ll walk like 10 blocks to get somewhere now and not even care, but when I first moved here if something was more than like 3 blocks away I’d be like “ugh, it’s so far!”  My legs would hurt when I got there.  But now I enjoy the scenery along the way.

Is This Such a Bad Thing?

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It makes my brain start with “what is the opposite of the guy who is friend-zoned” to some degree. I think in terms of HS, its the not-as-cool girl, who hasn’t peaked yet, who’s book smart and who all the popular kids try to manipulate into doing their homework for them. She’s nice, she won’t rat you out cus she’s secretly crushing on you but she’s not a confident go-getter or rebellious. She does what is expected of her, conforms to all social norms, goes to school, goes to college, gets above average grades, doesn’t go far out of her comfort zone on any level to excel academically, financially or socially.

She’s forgettable, and is often leading a life of getting by, or doing jobs that don’t necessarily thrill her but that which gain the approval of parents or community. She probably has affinity towards animals or charity/volunteer work. She’s a people pleaser, but pleasing herself is not a priority. She’s not outspoken in relationships because of the need to please others. She probably has daddy issues.

Because of her people pleasing nature, she’s probably been teachers pets, and TA’s in college, and admin assistant roles in her adult life.

She probably drives a Prius or Corolla, drinks middle of the road tea instead of coffeehouse coffee, and likes to shop at places like JCPenny’s and the Gap. She wears sensible shoes, and does her own mani-pedi’s. She probably keeps her locks mid-length and no super bold dye jobs. Probably has a style that leans more toward the conservative side.

She’s wistful and watches things like Sex in the City and romantic comedies and pines to be the strong women figures she sees in fictional characters.

She’s a good daughter, doing any family thing required of her without a word otherwise. If she has siblings, she’s probably the middle child and is often bailing out or defending her more rebellious sisters/brothers.

She’s bookish, and may or may not be super aware of the importance of health and fitness. If she IS, its not to any extreme. If she played sports, she wasn’t a team leader and never very competitive. She probably doesn’t do any sports in her adulthood. She may be properly educated in sports, again, as a people pleaser but not because she especially enjoys watching them.

She’s probably cute, not gorgeous, average build, not fit, not fat. Not tall not skinny. Probably has average features on all levels.  May need corrective lenses but probably only wears them to drive or once she gets home, but uses contacts for daytime activities like work etc.

The tendency of religious or political affiliations is probably not super active, but more on the conservative side of things. Probably cookie cutter views to that of her family.

You were intrigued by her looks because she IS cute, but there’s a social awkwardness about her that makes you pass her by and aim for someone with a bit more substance and risk taking. She might not have much relationship experience or a lot of shorter term relationships that ended in disappointment on both sides. She’s probably looking to settle down before her partner is ready and thus pushed the men in her life away because of it. This may have created a scenario where she’s slept with more people that she wanted to to gain approval.